2016 Bootblack


Xiaoyi is a slave at heart and a bootblack at large. She teaches about consensual slavery, bootblacking, BDSM, relationships, poly, and many other topics.  She is most fulfilled in a 24/7 TPE style relationship and is poly-play and omni-sensual.  Xiaoyi loves Leather, leather, costuming, pain, and protocols. She flags orange and Leather Worship. 

Xiaoyi earned her BA from MSU in Chinese Culture and Lore.  Her mission is to help create understanding and acceptance among people for each to learn and grow and be as they are. She works to do this through education and demystification.  She serves her community before herself.  She is a lifestyle coach and mentor who openly shares of her journey in hopes that she might help others who face similar challenges.

Xiaoyi was introduced to this lifestyle at a Halloween party in 2010 and dove straight for the deep end. She enjoyed a four year TPE relationship with her Master of Origin, and has since dated a few other Masters. She is currently self-owned.

Her Master of Origin witnessed an erotic boot worship scene back in 2004, and suggested that bootblacking would be something he would support her in if she was interested in learning.  Little did he know what he would unleash! She quickly became completely addicted and began learning from everyone and enyone she could.

Seldom shy or at a loss for words, xiaoyi enjoys deep philosophical and religious discussions.  She does not retreat from difficult topics or hesitate to admit she doesn’t know something.  She is often working at events, but when she has a spare moment to follow her passion, she can usually be found in her dress or stripped down, caring for someone’s leather. She has no problems switching between elegant hedonist and bootblack because for her, blacking is hedonistic.

Her favorite color is rainbow and her favorite flower is the tulip.  She has a wry sense of humor and red hair.  When asked if the curtains match the drapes, she will gladly tell you: “I installed hard wood.”